For those of you who might not be aware I spent my formative years growing up in Africa, and although I’ve been living in Canada for almost 30 years, winter always catches me by surprise. I know it’s coming I change my wardrobe, get my house ready, purchase updated protective gear for my kids, celebrate Christmas and then winter comes. AGAIN!!! I KNOW!!!
It’s CRAZY that I’m surprised every time!! I’m surprised by all the challenges that living with such cold weather brings; surprised by the physical effects, by the emotional effects. I’m surprised every year!
Then I realized something; sometimes it can be this way with feelings. You may find yourself in a difficult situation. You may think you’re ready and then it happens and all those feelings and everything else comes back. AGAIN??? Surprise!!! You thought you had prepared and here you are AGAIN.
You know what? It’s OK; you are allowed to have those feelings. Because like me and winter, you get to choose how to deal with them. Sometimes all it takes is a change of perspective.
I go for Winter Yoga Walks. I bundle up and look for things that make me happy and I give myself credit for getting out of the house and coming up with the concept of a Winter Yoga Walk. Then instead of curling up into a ball; I give myself credit for going outside.
I start giving self-credit for every darn thing that it takes for me to handle winter. You know what? When I give credit for every little accomplishment that I have made; winter can be tolerable. With a change of perspective so can your situation. You are much stronger than you may feel at times. Give yourself credit.
I was listening to some vintage or classic rap recently while driving. I know its vintage because my kids love to remind me that anything that I know all the words to is quite dated or as they like to put it Old School. “The Power” a song by the German music group Snap! From their album World Power released in 1990 started playing.
Now this song is particularly known for its hook “I’ve got the power!” Singing along while doing some pretty awesome upper body grooving at a red light. (It is not wise to do much lower body moving if your driving.) I started thinking about power and light. This is what I came up with and I thought I would share.
Everyone has a light bulb inside of them.
You are the Operator of the switch.
Yes, you have the Power. The wiring is all set up.
What are you going to do?
I think you should…
turn it on
Oh, and if the switch seems to be stuck – check the bulb. Is your light turned on?
If it’s off, what can you do to turn it back on?
Do you need a new bulb?
The Bill is already paid up.
This song and thought process on a chilly February day is quite possibly one of the best Light Turner-On Activities I’ve ever come up with.
If you would like to enjoy the inspiration for this post here is the link.
Namaste, no pun intended..Danielle
If I was to ask you: “What would you steal? “Chances are you would likely answer “Nothing, not me!” I am no thief.”
This question may prompt one to think about Robert Nixon or robbing a bank or shoplifting. Eating a grape from the super market or not being honest when you get the incorrect change back in your favor.
But stealing can be more than that. We steal from others unconsciously all of the time. It may be not material goods but we are all guilty of it.
The green eyed monster can strike in many forms. We can experience jealousy or envy of another’s success. This is a form of energetic stealing. By not being supportive we are taking away from their success which steals from our own sense of self-esteem and self-worth.
Last year at the start of 2014 my three boys and I jumped in frozen Lake Ontario as part of the Polar Bear Challenge. It was a baptism of sorts. As a family we had a terrible 2013, my husband and I had almost lost one of our children. It was not a good year and I vowed to change everything. What better way than by doing something so crazy and silly and brave. As well as bonding with my boys at the same time with Daddy filming and looking on. We were so happy and proud of ourselves.
We had great big smiles on our faces and wanted to share the experience with one of our close family members. “Hey listen and look at what we did!” as we showed them the video. They looked at us with a blank face, combined with an eye roll and responded: “Try doing it if you are not prepared to. That would be really something.”
Wow! We were crushed. Our joy and excitement had just been robbed from us. Stolen right out of the air we were breathing, it felt awful.
Consider your response the next time someone shares good news with you. Can you genuinely be excited and happy for them, or do you feel the need to “one up” or diminish them?
The more you celebrate the success of others, the more success will flow your way. This I can attest to.
Most of us become quite reflective at this time of year – and for me this year is no exception.
As the final hours of 2014 start winding down, I have found a different approach to the yearly tradition of writing down my goals and resolutions that I decided to try last year is making this time of looking back more of a pleasant experience. Back in 2013 I suggested the following: Let’s embrace the idea of self love, and by doing this we will only feed our body and mind with the best. Making these my resolutions…
- I will give up limiting beliefs, relationships and habits, even if doing so leaves me naked or vulnerable.
- I will ask for help,even if doing so makes me feel or look weak.
- I will dig to find out more about who I am, even if I don’t like what I find at first.
- I will embrace my true self, even if it’s hard.
- I will speak up and stand up for causes and beliefs that are important to me, even if I offend.
- I will pursue my dreams with passion and daring, even if I have to sacrifice personal safety or comfort.
- I will take risks in business and in life, even if I’m unsure and don’t have all the information.
AND I DID. This year I accomplished more than I ever thought possible for myself, my family and my clients.
So you won’t see me be scribbling the usual “This year, I will do this/that” My focus won’t be on how I can change this or how I won’t eat that. It won’t be on staying more organized or achieving new goals.
This year, my focus will be on letting go.
What will I be letting go of? Lot’s, I’m talking truckloads of “stuff”.
Emotional stuff, physical stuff, my ego stuff, control stuff and all the stuff that isn’t real but hops on our back and weighs us down (like the stories we make up about how scary life will be if we let go of all this stuff!)
- I will let go and attain a delicious freedom that can propel me into a world of adventure and magic.
- I will let go and, discover the wonder and clarity that come with living a simplified life.
- I will let go, and make space for shiny new opportunities that make my heart glow.
By letting go, I am telling the Universe: I AM NOT AFRAID….
And I am pretty sure the universe will answer back…“Okay Friend, it’s about time. Let’s live your life now!”
I am letting go. How about you?
What are you willing to let go of in 2015?
Can you have the courage to know that letting go makes you stronger than holding on?
When your roots are most firm, your branches steady in the winds, when you are the most prepared that’s when everything changes.
Believe me, it’s true.
As I watch the leaf pile raked up yesterday blow back across the lawn this morning it is again apparent no matter how much you prepare something unanticipated will happen.
You wake up, you know, the ritual, the players, the script, what the backdrop is, it is the same every single day. Partner, kids, moods, songs, food. If it does not go as planned you may get grumpy, (someone used the last of the milk) it sets the tone for your day, or does it???
It can be changed in an instant, a word or gesture, a call. The world has changed, you have changed, life is different and so are you, we may be resistant to change but it is a constant, which can be counted upon.
It’s good to have a constant even if it is change.
I guess this time I will put the hockey net over my leaf pile…That will hold them until the Kids play Ball Hockey.
Have you noticed any big changes this Fall Season ????
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